Hey readers, found out about a new book coming out that you may be interested in. It’s called Stories from our Black Books. There’s also a release party coming out on the 11th (three days from today) if you’d like to drop in and check out the party at the Libra Lounge (see below for details). What’s cool about this book is that it features REAL STORIES, not those fantasy made up fiction that you can read in the grocery store. The book is also on its second volume, so if you liked this one, be sure to check out the first volume too. Here’s a few notes about the book:
THE BOOK – All Your Juiciest Stories
It all started with a book! Back in 2004 my girl Carissa started collecting stories from women across North America about the men in and
out of their lives. After only a matter of weeks, hundreds of stories had been submitted and Carissa’s lovely face was seen in papers and on
televisions all over Canada! Buy the book online! What can I say girls, IT WAS A HIT! With a 500+ person launch party and
a couple thousand copies of The Book sold within weeks of its release,
Stories From Our Black Books was born!
The Book is a compilation of the juiciest, the most moving, the funniest
and the most influential stories that you’ve submitted! Our new version
of The Book is scheduled to launch February 14th, 2010, you don’t want
to miss getting your copy. We are still collecting stories now! Don’t
hesitate! Click on My Black Book and start submitting your stories
today! They may just be part of the next edition.
Flirt With Me – Submit a Story! www.storiesfromourblackbooks.com.
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Here’s more information about the book party release:
Tags: Advice, Black book, books
We all have our insecurities. That’s why it may boggle some of us when a love interest spends the majority of a date sending text messages, while we do all the talking. However, there is likely no need to worry.
In addition to non-stop texting, these are just some of the dating behaviours I have experienced while on dates with men who allegedly were very interested in me:
-Ogling the profiles of females nearby;
-Not acknowledging my comments throughout a movie;
-Cancelling of a birthday dinner (that I was prepared to splurge on), because he was too tired;
-Watching him smile as girls flirted with him, although he turned them down; and
-Him suggesting that we spend time with one of his companions, who is also a woman, on a third date.
While I regarded these behaviours as disrespectful, and some or all of them probably were, each of these flings managed to turn into long-term relationships. Thus, I feel that as daters, we shouldn’t read into signs too much. Not to mention, while on the dating scene, no one is completely committed to us, nor are we to them. Therefore, one should not be offended that another person is not showing him or her devotion until the two enter a meaningful relationship. However, if a date’s behaviour is completely off-putting to someone, then that person is entitled to end romantic relations with the culprit.
There are, of course, particular cases where rude or unusual behaviour may be an indication of a person’s character. For instance, some signals may be clues that a person is untrustworthy, and other signs may hint that a person won’t treat you the way you deserve to be treated. There are clear-cut signs and there are vague ones. Sometimes, there are none at all. Whatever the case, one will not know how a person will act during a relationship unless they experience a relationship with him or her. That’s why the concept of breakups exists. Thus, I feel it is important for one to put their insecurities aside when dating. Enjoy the experience. Whatever the outcome, the process was amusing and made us feel desirable.
Tags: Advice
Whatever state of singlism you are in: old and rusty, recently broken up, or an eager beaver; February gives you the opportunity to expand your horizons, meet new people, and hopefully create new sparks that captivate your eye.
We have a great party that’s upcoming that can give you a great opportunity to put some sparkle back into your dating life!
TorontoSpeedDate.com on February 11th is hosting a pre-Valentines bash in the downtown core.
Event: Pre- Valentines day bash
Where: Dazzling Restaurant 291 King Street West, Toronto Ontario
When: Feb 11th Ages 22-35 All proceeds will be going to support the Haitian Relief effort. You can expect great people, a good time, and a chance to win some prizes!
Go to TorontoSpeedDate.com to register now! Feb 11th is only a couple days away!
This is the last of the excerpt from the Fresh Breath doc’s article about “We are what we eat”. If you’d like to learn more about fresh breath, check out: www.Freshbreath.ca for more information!
“Many of the nutrients present in our foods are developed from raw materials found in the soil where the food is grown. When the fruit or vegetable is harvested also determines the amount of nutrients present since the nutrient density develops with growth. Unfortunately, many of our products are grown in soil that has been overused. As well, in order to reach the grocery stores in edible condition, many fruits are harvested before they ripen. These conditions decrease the nutrients that are available to the consumer.
Supplementation of nutrients may be necessary when the person does not consume the full required intake of 5 to 10 servings of fruits and vegetables per day. It may also be needed during the winter seasons when local sun-ripened products are not available and our fruits and vegetables are imported from other countries and thus may be picked before all the nutrients are fully developed.”
Tags: bad breath, fresh breath, tips
Everyone hits a point where things aren’t going well, and your best efforts haven’t been good enough. This can happen in any area of life, but it’s especially personal in romance. If you’re involved, maybe things aren’t going well. If you’re single, maybe you haven’t had a date or sex or a good conversation with someone in a while, and everything you’ve tried has turned to ash.
The temptation is to pout about it to yourself and the people close to you, and expect the whole world to devote its energies to rectifying the situation.
That usually doesn’t help.
It’s important to keep yourself positive when things aren’t going well. This doesn’t mean ignoring the bad things, but rather keeping them in context. Let’s look at an example.
Let’s imagine that a guy named Ray gets dumped. He spends some time brooding about it, but after a while he decides that he should go out and meet some women, and maybe find someone he likes spending time with. After six months, though, he’s had no success. He hasn’t gotten so much as a phone number.
He spends his time whining to his friends about how the women in this city are stuck up, or how he has no luck, or how it’s all just a stupid game. How do his friends react?
Most of them probably get less interested the more they hear. Maybe they try to help Ray out, though, and introduce him to some interesting women. What kind of impression is Ray going to give? Even if he puts on a smile and tries, if he’s got lingering resentment or despair, he’s not going to give off good vibes when he’s meeting someone new.
Here are three useful things that everyone can do to help improve their outlook and, in doing so, have a better time meeting new people:
1. When you catch yourself complaining about something, stop immediately and try to think of something, anything, that’s positive about the situation. If you’ve told a joke to a pretty woman and the joke fell flat, and now she’s talking to someone else, figure out how you could improve the delivery of the joke and get ready to try again.
2. Force a smile. As long as you can keep a smile on your face that looks at least slightly natural, it will have beneficial effects on your mood. Other people will see you smiling and will smile at you, which will reinforce the good feelings. And perhaps simply because our biology associates smiling with happiness, the simple act of turning up the corners of your mouth will encourage your mind to stay positive.
3. Set smart goals when you go out. Don’t think “I want to go home with a hottie,” think “I want to meet interesting people.” And then follow through: be willing to talk to people you might not normally, including girls or guys you know you wouldn’t want to romance. The good vibes you’ll start to build up enhance your confidence and help make you a more interesting and attractive person.
The higher you keep your attitude, the better the returns. Everyone wants to spend time with people who make them feel good about themselves and their lives. Work to become that person and it’ll come back to you.
Tags: Advice, positivity
Although it is true that one can make any day special for their sweetheart, the approach of Valentine’s Day just holds so much excitement! Here are some tips to make this Valentine’s day (or any day, that is) memorable:
- Surprise your other half. Plan something thoughtful, whether it’s a romantic fantasy they’ve mentioned, or simply something spontaneous. An evening full of romance, out or in, or a getaway weekend for two are just some examples.
- Do something out of the ordinary. If the two of you are used to a routine, break out of it. Try pampering each other. Giving each other massages with oil or feeding each other fruit dipped in chocolate are just some ideas.
- Let your significant other know they’re appreciated. One can do this by writing a meaningful card or letter for their mate. (To add a surprise effect, place the love note somewhere they are guaranteed to look, and have them find it. It makes the gesture even more sweet.)
Remember that gifts on Valentine’s Day are not necessary to show your love for another. However, if one or the two of you feel like giving gifts, remember that presents don’t have to be expensive to be heartfelt. A simple box of chocolates often suffices; something home-made or something thoughtful are also good options.
My Recommendations:
-Frankie Tomatto’s – this place has exquisite dining for an inexpensive cost. Not only is the food tasty, the atmosphere is intimate and cozy – a perfect place for a romantic date.
7225 Woodbine Avenue
Markham, ON L3R
(905) 940-1900
www.FrankieTomatto.com
Café Cache
-This adorable little café serves both delectable desserts and scrumptious meals. This is a great place to indulge in mouth-watering foods and make memories with your lover.
255 Bass Pro Mills Drive
Vaughan, ON L4K
(905) 738-9198
www.CafeCache.ca
Home
Some may think that a duo cannot have an enjoyable time at home, but I beg to differ. Each other’s company is what’s most important. If a couple cares to do something entertaining indoors, there are many options available; these include back rubs, baking decadent treats, playing trivia games, ordering in food or making food for each other, painting, and so on. Not to mention, this option is the least costly and most intimate setting.
‘Hope these tips bring some spark to your Valentine’s Day and/or overall lovelife!
Continuing from last week’s publication of “We are what we eat”, part two of the Fresh Breath clinic’s publication further explains how antioxidants help our diet. Very useful if you’re a wine drinker or planning on sipping some with your date tonight! If you are looking for more information about bad breath, check out the Breath Doc’s website at: www.freshbreath.ca.
“An antioxidant has the ability to step between a compound seeking electron (the free radical) and normal body cells. By donating electrons to this compound, the antioxidant will neutralize it and protect that part of the cell from attack and damage. There are numerous antioxidants available in the body such as Vitamins A, C, and E, selenium, beta-carotene and lycopene to name a few. Some antioxidants can become radicals when they donate an electron. Other antioxidants with different properties join in and stop the reaction. When we have infections such as bad breath or even when we exercise, our production of free radicals increases and more antioxidants are needed to neutralize them. For a healthy body and a healthy immune system, it is necessary to have all types of antioxidants present. This means that we have to pay attention to our diets very carefully.”
Tags: bad breath, fresh breath, tips
Remember last year when you heard that Winterlicious was coming up and you decided to wait until the last minute to make a reservation? Well here’s your chance to book in advance. Starting on January 29th to February 11th, over 150 of Toronto’s best restaurants will be holding a prix fixe promotional menu ranging in price from $15-25 for lunch and $25-45 for dinner.
From the official Toronto.ca website: “The WinterCity Festival wouldn’t be complete without Toronto’s favourite winter gastronomic celebration. Now in its eighth delicious year, Winterlicious again offers two popular programs for you to savour.
Winterlicious Culinary Events
10 mouth-watering culinary events featuring some of Toronto’s diverse cuisine and notable chefs.
General Reservation Date: Thursday, January 14, 2010
Please remember… You MUST cancel your reservation at least 48 hours in advance if you cannot keep it.”
Tags: winterlicious
From January 29 to February 11, 2010, Toronto will once again be holding it’s Wintercity Festival. Drop by Nathan Phillips Square and discover Toronto’s art scene filled with food and free entrtainment.
From the Toronto.ca website: “Toronto’s award-winning WinterCity Festival returns for its seventh year, offering a city-wide celebration of culture, creativity and cuisine. Ignore the cold and snow and get out and celebrate all that Toronto has to offer in the winter. The city will be bursting with culinary experiences, fantastic free entertainment at Nathan Phillips Square and a showcase of Toronto’s vibrant arts scene.
Beat the cold with a spectacular fire installation, gravity-defying aerial dance performances, ice sculptures and themed skating parties.”
On Thursday January 21st, at all participating Kelsey’s resturants, Kelsey’s will be giving you a free one pound of wings when you make a visit! As part of their 30 years of being in business, make a visit after 4pm and you will receive a free pound of wings!
