I’d like to add that in my personal experience, I’ve been able to attract many compatible people of all kinds friends, co-workers, lovers, who fit with me thrillingly, simply by focusing *strongly* on traits I prefer, and not worrying about anything else. If I do encounter a difference which for whatever reason I don’t *prefer* (I like to use the word instead of “tolerate”), I lovingly say “no” to it, disentangle myself from that person romantically and accept whatever “fall-out” that occurs.

Hope this helps your readers, I love that you write about love/relationships in Toronto, keep rockin’!