The Endangered Gold Digger

goldYou’ve seen it – an ugly man holding hands with a gorgeous female. You start to believe miracles happen, but then you consider another option. The more attractive person may be using the other for money.

While this is a possibility, this is most likely not what’s happening. Some other explanations are:

The girl is desperate. Many girls enjoy attention and will take it from anyone. She may not find a dating prospect appealing but will date him anyway.

The girl is deep. Yes, pretty girls have hearts too. The woman may not be attracted to a suitor but finds his qualities admirable.

The girl is using him for sex. This is another rare possibility, but it happens. The girl has no other options for a physical encounter, so she chooses whoever she can get.

While there are many reasons a pretty girl would consider an ugly guy for love, the most common is that she enjoys his company. After all, no one wants to be around someone they can’t stand. Besides, if they were, there might be signs of it.

An anonymous person once said, “You don’t love someone for their looks or their clothes or their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.” This is usually the case. It is common for teenagers to base relationships on looks, but most adults are looking for someone who fulfills them. It would be unfair to say pretty girls don’t want happiness too.

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