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Contingency-Boyfriends and Pregnancy Woes
Dear Kris,
My ex-boyfriend just moved back into town, and I’ve been spending most of my time with him. My old feelings for him are coming back, and he’s mentioned that he wants me to date him again. The problem is that I have a boyfriend that I love very much, and I don’t want to leave him. At the same time, I can’t ignore my feelings for my ex. What should I do?
Jen
Dear Jen,
I’m not going to sugarcoat this for you: proverbially speaking, you seem to selfishly want to have your cake and eat it, too. Sorry, but you just can’t have both.
Does he introduce you as a ‘friend’?
Dear Kris,
The man I’m dating gives me a lot of love and attention, and shows how into our relationship he is. But he is only like this when we’re alone. As soon as we’re in public, especially around his friends, he acts like a jerk and even introduces me as a “friend”.
What am I supposed to do about it?
-Pissed Off
I’m not pretty enough or interesting enough syndrome – Kris10 offers her advice
Dear Kris,
I’m tired of being single, but I don’t know what to do about it. I’m painfully shy, unattractive, and not interesting enough. Men don’t ever approach me at bars or anywhere else. What do I have to do to get noticed?
Jenn
Oh, Jenn.
You sound a hell of a lot like I used to. The old “I’m not pretty enough or interesting enough” syndrome. I know it’s not fun, but it’s also a bit of a cop-out. It’s really easy to sit in a corner and sigh about how you’re alone, when every other woman can find someone. But maybe instead you should observe these ladies. Take note. Continue reading
Is he sleeping with another girl?
Editor’s note: Love In Toronto welcomes Kristen Goetz to the team! Read on for an introductory peak at our new writer and her new column.
Dating. The mere mention of that simple word has the ability to make a person smile, yearn, or hyperventilate. While everyone wants a special person in his or her life, one thing is certain: dating isn’t easy. When a situation has you confused and seeking Yoda-like relationship wisdom, who do you turn to? Friends, usually. Family members, in desperate times. But some circumstances require an outside source, an unbiased stranger who can dole out straightforward guidance without worrying about your sensitive ego. Continue reading
