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Island Love Charms

By: Rheba Estante

Ever since my Valentine’s Day op-ed on psychic love and predictions several people have asked me about love charms to draw their true love to them. My answer is … NO … there is no such thing as a Harry Potter magic bullet object to act like the genie in Aladdin’s lamp for your love life. You alone create your destiny within the context of reality, living in the moment, and good old fashioned trust in Divine providence. Mind you there is a Roman Catholic Novena Prayer made specifically for singles seeking to be united with the “one”. (If you are interested send an email to me at Aralar@loveintoronto.com and I’ll send it to you free of charge with instructions. If you are Catholic also you will know how novenas work)

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Candace Bushnell Saved My Single Life!!!!

By Rheba Estante

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Every female owes it to herself to have a Sex and the City party with her girlfriends. Why? Because on those days when you delude yourself into believing that a diamond ring on your left hand will finally make you a worthy person … it’s time for a Carrie Bradshaw remedy. Spinster is out … Sex and the City is in! A century ago women needed a man because there were few career options, they had no voting rights, could not own property, could not invest money, etc. Times have changed!

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Hey Big Spender – Don’t Spend More Than Time with Them!

By Rheba Estante

A few weeks ago someone suggested that LoveInToronto.com talk about the phenomenon of male and female gold diggers on the dating scene. I have not had personal experience on this so I have collected some other comments from those who have the warning signs down pat. All I will say is … if you have worked hard for your money … hold on to it … women used to be the only gender accused of digging for gold and using men … but now men are too. So … hold on to your assets, your stock portfolio, your real estate investments, your gold certificates, Relox watch, and if you do marry him or her … HIDE YOUR ASSETS so she or he walks away with nothing unless you end things. Marla Maples walked away with only a million from Donald Trump. So it is possible to be with a gold digger and not lose your shirt.

Some collected essays:

Matthew Fitzgerald from AskMen.com

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